Attitude - Age is a number, and it is real. The way you approach it, with grace, gratitude and anticipation, or with gripe, dread and complaint, will matter in how you are received, perceived, and how you conceive of your age.
Belief - Believing in yourself, your opportunities and your results will yield you an older and wiser approach to living rather than an old and dated way of living life.
Confidence - Being confident at any age, is the best accessory and age-embracing approach to living, learning and really loving life.
If you want to watch "dating" yourself, check these things:
1. Eyebrows (Ladies - are they too thin?, or Men, are they too wild?)
2. Posture (hunching makes us look less spry, and therefore, old)
3. Double spacing (when writing, double spacing after a period is considered old school - only one is required now)
4. Email (AOL accounts are nearly a sure sign of someone who isn't advancing with "the times")
5. Glasses (get a style that suites you, talk little about "having to wear them" or your "old eyes", and keep them off the top of your head)
6. Age (do not talk about how old you are/feel in a negative tone or verbiage)
7. Dress (trendy and/or too tight does not make you look younger, rather older attempting to look young)
8. Shoes (be comfortable and stylish)
9. Exercise and Diet (dieting and exercising only when attempting to lose weight shows your age, instead, make it a way of life)
10. Technology (saying "I'm not good with technology", or "I'll give this phone to a young person" sounds like you have given up - and you have not!)
Similarly, the ABCs stand for Action, Boundaries, and Consistency. Take actions that work for you. Set boundaries on being negative about aging. And, be consistent in your approach to aging with grace and style.
The key is allowing ourselves to age gracefully while owning who we are...and not wanting to be who we used to be!