“Commitment is an
act, not a word.”
Jean-Paul Sartre
French philosopher,
playwright, novelist, screenwriter, political activist, biographer, and
literary critic.
1905 – 1980)
When someone says “I might be there” or replies to an
invitation with a “Maybe”, please know this is likely a “No”.
And, better yet, please smile and say something like “Thanks
for letting me know your thoughts on the event.
I am going to put you down as a no”.
Even though people may be surprised by your response, and
even defend themselves, as someone planning an event, accept only
commitments…to coming or not attending…not indecisive people for whom you
cannot accurately plan time, food and more.
Also, this will keep you from additional follow-up, which can seem like
begging, for a final count for your event.
Similarly, instead of saying “I might be there” or “Maybe”,
please know you, too, are likely a “No”, so simply offer a “No, thank you”, and
keep the host from wondering about you as well!
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