"Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence
will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another."
- Napoleon Hill
American author in the area of the new thought movement
who was one of the earliest producers of the modern genre of personal-success
literature. He is widely considered to be one of the great writers on success.
(1882 -
1970)
Critical people are often avoided or disliked. Critical
thinking is rarely discussed, and often appreciated. Imagine the
difference in asking "You think...so?" and
"You think so?"!
While we may think we want to be around people who think the same, perhaps we'd
do well to be around people who think critically. What is the difference,
if you are both thoughtful? Similar minds may get different results even
though you are compatible if you encourage, use and even expect, critical
thinking. Planning for same thinking means you likely, and even
unknowingly, shut down critical thinking.
Here are four questions (with two options for each) to ask to engage in
critical thinking...of yourself and others:
1.
What do you think about XYZ? OR What are your thoughts on
XYZ?
2.
What makes you think that OR How do you know this to be
true?
3.
Will you tell me more? OR What else can you tell me about
that?
4.
What questions do you still have? OR What questions can we
explore together?
When we focus on critical thinking, we are open
to ideas and options. When we focus on criticism, we see what is wrong or
closed. In other words, it's the difference in "You think so?"
and "You think...so?". Being a critical thinker allows yourself
and others to explore and share thoughts without as much judgement as a right
or wrong answer provides.
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