Friday, May 15, 2015

Relationship-Building "Do's"

"We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics." 
~ Joyce Meyer
American author and speaker.
(b. 1943)
    
There seems to be a lot of "Don't" lists for so many thing on social media, and this is not one of them!

Relationships, not technology, make things happen. Technology is wonderful, and assists us in accomplishing things, and yet, regardless of systems and gadgets, people get things done.

Here are seven "do's" for relationship-building. Whether romantic couples, or business colleagues/partners, these are ways to maintain, enhance, and even grow what you have already nurtured.

1) Respect roles without getting so caught up in them that you only know what you do/bring
2) Keep conflicts private
3) Be happy for one another's success (and even brag about it for him/her)
4) Respect differences as strengths without attempting to change the other person
5) Address specific behaviors rather than the person in general
6) Do things for each other without being asked
7) Show appreciation for what the person does (even if that is what is expected in that "role")

These seven things, done sincerely, are all ways to be a contributing partner in any relationship!

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