"Silence is better than unmeaning words."
Greek philosopher and the eponymous founder of the Pythagoreanism movement.
The use of words becomes as much as a habit as brushing our teeth, and if we do not consider that meanings change over time, and the implication of what we say (and how we say it) have an impact on others, we may be sending the wrong message...unintentionally.
Here are some words and phrases to please consider phasing out. These are not pet peeve words, rather these tend to conjure up negative or off-putting ideas for some/many, and while not everyone will find them problematic, wouldn't it be nice to avoid the potential and amp up your effectiveness anyway?
Phrases to Phase Out Replacement Verbiage
We'll just agree to disagree
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While we may not agree on this, let's respect each of us has our reasoning and neither is wrong
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Kind of
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(nothing - simply be specific)
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You don't understand
You need to
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Would you consider?
I am counting on you to...
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Relax/Calm down
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What can I do to assist?
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Obviously
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Some find/agree...
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For those of you who know me, I am...
I'd like to introduce you to...
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I am
Please meet
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It is what it is
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Here's where we are, and here's the approach I am taking
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I don't care
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Whatever you prefer/Your preference works for me
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By shifting your phrases, you ensure others, and you, know where you are, where you are going, and you have clear messaging for moving ahead!
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